<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Rooted Survivors]]></title><description><![CDATA[Rooted Survivors]]></description><link>https://www.rootedsurvivors.com/blog</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Tue, 28 Jul 2026 09:24:18 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://www.rootedsurvivors.com/blog-feed.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA[Teen Moodiness Vs Trauma: 10 Things You Should Know About Your Child’s Mental Health]]></title><description><![CDATA[Trying to navigate the teenage years can often feel like you’re trying to read a map written in a language you only half-understand. One minute, your child is the sweet, open book they’ve always been; the next, the door is slammed, the headphones are on, and you’re left standing in the hallway wondering what you said wrong. At Rooted Survivors, we hear this from parents in California and Oklahoma every single day. We can hear you thinking out loud right now: "Is this just what being fifteen...]]></description><link>https://www.rootedsurvivors.com/post/teen-moodiness-vs-trauma-10-things-you-should-know-about-your-child-s-mental-health</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a63d8ec48a090b99129c319</guid><pubDate>Fri, 24 Jul 2026 21:55:54 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/https://cdn.marblism.com/lnOAd8qKPvq.webp/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Lauren Taylor</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Depression Vs Trauma Shutdown: 10 Reasons Your Healing Isn't Moving Forward]]></title><description><![CDATA[We can hear you thinking it right now: "I’ve tried everything. I’ve done the talk therapy, I’ve taken the meds, I’ve read the self-help books, and I still feel like I’m living behind a thick pane of glass." It’s exhausting, isn't it? That feeling of being "stuck" in a body that refuses to cooperate. You might have been told for years that you’re dealing with clinical depression. And while that might be part of the picture, there’s a distinct possibility that what you’re actually experiencing...]]></description><link>https://www.rootedsurvivors.com/post/depression-vs-trauma-shutdown-10-reasons-your-healing-isn-t-moving-forward</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a63dd3159dc3f2805c709be</guid><pubDate>Fri, 24 Jul 2026 21:54:52 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/https://cdn.marblism.com/YzFrZblFdEI.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Lauren Taylor</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[PTSD Vs CPTSD: 5 Secrets Revealed for Navigating Complex Trauma]]></title><description><![CDATA[If you’ve spent any time scouring the internet for answers to why you feel "on edge" or why your relationships always seem to mirror the same painful patterns, you’ve likely stumbled across two acronyms that feel like heavy weights: PTSD and CPTSD. At Rooted Survivors Therapy, we see you. We see the hours you’ve spent trying to diagnose yourself, the late nights wondering why you can’t just "get over it," and the exhausting effort it takes just to keep your head above water. The confusion...]]></description><link>https://www.rootedsurvivors.com/post/ptsd-vs-cptsd-5-secrets-revealed-for-navigating-complex-trauma</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a63dd35424f5a9980a94edd</guid><pubDate>Fri, 24 Jul 2026 21:53:57 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/https://cdn.marblism.com/D2FiE2Orj8A.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Lauren Taylor</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Healthy Conflict Vs Emotional Abuse: How to Spot the Difference Before It's Too Late]]></title><description><![CDATA[Conflict is an inevitable part of being human. When two lives, histories, and nervous systems intertwine, there will eventually be a rub. We’ve all been there: the heated debate over finances, the misunderstanding about household chores, or the sting of a poorly timed comment. But there is a specific kind of conflict that feels different. It’s the kind that leaves you feeling "small," confused, or like you’re constantly "walking on eggshells." If you’ve ever finished a disagreement feeling...]]></description><link>https://www.rootedsurvivors.com/post/healthy-conflict-vs-emotional-abuse-how-to-spot-the-difference-before-it-s-too-late</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a63dd3d59dc3f2805c709df</guid><pubDate>Fri, 24 Jul 2026 21:53:09 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/https://cdn.marblism.com/78Ch1D5B23X.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Lauren Taylor</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Anxiety Vs Hypervigilance: Are You Making These Common Survival Mistakes?]]></title><description><![CDATA[Ever feel like the "volume" of the world is just... too loud? Maybe you’re sitting at a dinner table, but instead of tasting your food, you’re tracking the sharp edge in your partner’s voice. Or perhaps you’re lying in bed, but your mind is running a marathon through every mistake you might make at work tomorrow. You’ve probably called this "anxiety." You might have even been told you’re "overthinking" or "being too sensitive." At Rooted Survivors, we see so many people who feel exhausted by...]]></description><link>https://www.rootedsurvivors.com/post/anxiety-vs-hypervigilance-are-you-making-these-common-survival-mistakes</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a63dd5b59dc3f2805c70a2a</guid><pubDate>Fri, 24 Jul 2026 21:52:05 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/https://cdn.marblism.com/NaXR1b_0nbO.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Lauren Taylor</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Specialized Virtual Trauma Therapy in California: Healing Across the Golden State]]></title><description><![CDATA[Living in California often feels like trying to run a marathon through a beautiful, sun-drenched maze. Whether you are navigating the gridlock of the 405 in Los Angeles, the steep, fog-laden hills of San Francisco, or the sprawling agricultural heart of the Central Valley, the pace of life here is relentless. For those of us carrying the weight of past trauma, that fast-paced energy can feel less like "the dream" and more like a constant, low-grade alarm bell ringing in the back of our minds....]]></description><link>https://www.rootedsurvivors.com/post/specialized-virtual-trauma-therapy-in-california-healing-across-the-golden-state</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a63cb42424f5a9980a922ed</guid><pubDate>Fri, 24 Jul 2026 20:31:37 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/https://cdn.marblism.com/h2pywQNmyQi.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Lauren Taylor</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Specialized Virtual Trauma Therapy in Oklahoma: Healing Beyond the Map]]></title><description><![CDATA[Virtual Trauma Therapy in Oklahoma: Specialized Care from Tulsa to Oklahoma City  If you are reading this from a quiet corner of your home in Oklahoma City, a break room in Tulsa, or a farmhouse in the rural stretches of the Panhandle, we want to start by saying something you might not have heard enough lately: The exhaustion you feel, the way your heart races when a certain song plays, the "walking on eggshells" feeling that follows you even when you’re alone, these are not signs that you...]]></description><link>https://www.rootedsurvivors.com/post/specialized-virtual-trauma-therapy-in-oklahoma-healing-beyond-the-map</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a63c8be424f5a9980a91ced</guid><pubDate>Fri, 24 Jul 2026 20:21:01 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/https://cdn.marblism.com/Tf-YguIdsmX.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Lauren Taylor</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Why Trauma-Informed Therapy is the Missing Piece in Your Anxiety and Depression Recovery]]></title><description><![CDATA[We see you. We see the way you’ve been showing up for yourself, even when your heart feels heavy and your mind is a chaotic swirl of "what-ifs." You’ve likely tried the deep breathing exercises, the gratitude journals, and maybe even standard talk therapy where you've spent weeks: or months: analyzing your thoughts. And yet, there’s that nagging feeling. The feeling that you’re just treading water. You might find yourself thinking, “I know why I feel this way, so why can’t I just stop feeling...]]></description><link>https://www.rootedsurvivors.com/post/why-trauma-informed-therapy-is-the-missing-piece-in-your-anxiety-and-depression-recovery</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a5be75f4f0f8757c0dadfe1</guid><pubDate>Tue, 21 Jul 2026 16:00:19 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/https://cdn.marblism.com/U_JcQ7tXXCa.webp/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Lauren Taylor</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Childhood Trauma Recovery: How to Stop Your Past from Defining Your Future]]></title><description><![CDATA[If you are reading this, I want to start by telling you something you might not have heard enough: You are not broken. I know it might not feel that way right now. When you’ve grown up in an environment where your needs were secondary, where your safety was a question mark, or where "love" felt more like a transaction than a foundation, it leaves a mark. You might feel like you’re carrying a heavy, invisible backpack everywhere you go, filled with the "should haves" and "if onlys" of a...]]></description><link>https://www.rootedsurvivors.com/post/childhood-trauma-recovery-how-to-stop-your-past-from-defining-your-future</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a5be75f5e7d848635e26031</guid><pubDate>Tue, 14 Jul 2026 07:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/https://cdn.marblism.com/O9vglPfioDJ.webp/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Lauren Taylor</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Why You Feel Like a Scared 8-year-Old During Conflict: Erikson’s Stages and The 'Stuck' Inner Child]]></title><description><![CDATA[We’ve all been there. You’re in the middle of a disagreement with your partner, or perhaps your boss just gave you a piece of "constructive feedback" that felt a little too sharp. Suddenly, the confident, capable adult you usually are vanishes. In her place is a version of you that feels small, shaky, and completely overwhelmed. Your heart races, your throat tightens, and you find yourself wanting to either scream, hide under the covers, or apologize for things you didn’t even do. We can hear...]]></description><link>https://www.rootedsurvivors.com/post/why-you-feel-like-a-scared-8-year-old-during-conflict-erikson-s-stages-and-the-stuck-inner-child</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a57ff1101393a999054d923</guid><pubDate>Tue, 07 Jul 2026 21:43:45 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/https://cdn.marblism.com/U5QyGvQcr3l.webp/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Lauren Taylor</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Trauma's Time Machine: How your Inner Child gets Frozen in Erikson’s Developmental Stages]]></title><description><![CDATA[Have you ever been in the middle of a totally normal Tuesday, maybe sitting in a meeting or chatting with your partner about the grocery list, and suddenly, you feel about four inches tall? Maybe a specific tone of voice triggers a wave of panic that feels way too big for the situation. Or perhaps you find yourself "collapsing" into a puddle of shame because you made a tiny mistake at work. In those moments, it’s like your adult self has left the building, and a younger, much more vulnerable...]]></description><link>https://www.rootedsurvivors.com/post/trauma-s-time-machine-how-your-inner-child-gets-frozen-in-erikson-s-developmental-stages</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a57ff0b4ee79d90036e9902</guid><pubDate>Tue, 30 Jun 2026 21:43:40 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/https://cdn.marblism.com/r4TQIfuDiw1.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Lauren Taylor</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Ghost of Chaos: Why your "Ineffective" Behaviors are Actually Subtle Self-Punishment]]></title><description><![CDATA[We’ve all been there. You’ve finally found a moment of peace. The bills are paid, the house is quiet, and the relationship you’re in (or the one you’re building with yourself) is actually... healthy. There’s no yelling, no slamming doors, and no heavy silence that feels like a physical weight in the room. And yet, in that quiet, you feel an itch. Suddenly, you find yourself picking a fight over nothing. Or you stay up until 3:00 AM scrolling through your ex’s social media, even though you...]]></description><link>https://www.rootedsurvivors.com/post/the-ghost-of-chaos-why-your-ineffective-behaviors-are-actually-subtle-self-punishment</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a57ff048a059921e603d088</guid><pubDate>Tue, 23 Jun 2026 21:43:32 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/https://cdn.marblism.com/7O22YB1XIeU.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Lauren Taylor</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Parenting Through Trauma: Supporting Your Kids While You’re Still Healing]]></title><description><![CDATA[Parenting is hard in the best of circumstances. Parenting while you’re carrying trauma: whether it’s from a past relationship, childhood experiences, loss, or something more recent: adds a layer most people don’t see. Parenting requires regulation. I will give you the space and the permission up front here: No parent is perfect. We all fumble. There are moments where we get overwhelmed and overstimulated and it shows. Parenting while you are carrying and recovering from trauma is especially...]]></description><link>https://www.rootedsurvivors.com/post/parenting-through-trauma-supporting-your-kids-while-you-re-still-healing</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a5be326830cbda37bbf7b22</guid><pubDate>Tue, 16 Jun 2026 07:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/https://smb.ibsrv.net/imageresizer/image/article_manager/1200x1200/334470/1447382/heroimage0.979635001776449045.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Lauren Taylor</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Toxic and Abusive Relationships Come in Many Different Forms]]></title><description><![CDATA[We can hear you thinking it: "But it wasn't that bad," or "They only did it once," or perhaps, "I should have seen it coming." If you are reading this and feeling a knot in your stomach, that familiar, heavy tightness that comes when you start to look at the cracks in your relationship, we want you to take a deep breath. Right now. Fill your lungs and let it out slowly. We at Rooted Survivors Therapy know exactly what it’s like to be getting elbows deep in the messy reality of a relationship...]]></description><link>https://www.rootedsurvivors.com/post/toxic-and-abusive-relationships-come-in-many-different-forms</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a5be3215e7d848635e25676</guid><pubDate>Tue, 09 Jun 2026 07:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/https://smb.ibsrv.net/imageresizer/image/article_manager/1200x1200/334470/1399458/heroimage0.583793001764789332.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Lauren Taylor</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Finding Rest Again: Trauma-Informed Sleep Strategies for Survivors]]></title><description><![CDATA[For many trauma survivors, sleep is a struggle, void of the rest and relaxation you envisioned. Nighttime can feel like the most vulnerable part of the day. When the sun sets and distractions fade, your body slows down and your survival instincts go up, making it difficult to deal with racing thoughts and the feeling of being on edge. Memories or sensations that you may have had a handle on throughout the day suddenly flood your system, making it nearly impossible to wind down. Difficulty...]]></description><link>https://www.rootedsurvivors.com/post/finding-rest-again-trauma-informed-sleep-strategies-for-survivors</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a5be3225e7d848635e2567a</guid><pubDate>Tue, 02 Jun 2026 07:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/https://smb.ibsrv.net/imageresizer/image/article_manager/1200x1200/334470/1405355/heroimage0.761558001766263998.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Lauren Taylor</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[How to Build a Safety Network With Trusted Friends]]></title><description><![CDATA[For many of us at Rooted Survivors Therapy, the idea of “feeling safe” sounds simple on the surface. In real life, it can be complicated, fragile, or even unfamiliar. If you’ve been through trauma, a toxic or abusive relationship, or a long period of isolation, safety isn’t just about locked doors or quiet nights. It’s about whether your body can relax, your mind can rest, and whether or not your emotions feel welcome anywhere outside of yourself. It's about opening yourself back up to...]]></description><link>https://www.rootedsurvivors.com/post/how-to-build-a-safety-network-with-trusted-friends</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a5be323830cbda37bbf7b18</guid><pubDate>Tue, 26 May 2026 07:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/https://smb.ibsrv.net/imageresizer/image/article_manager/1200x1200/334470/1405356/heroimage0.225547001766264982.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Lauren Taylor</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[You're Not Broken: Understanding the Stages of Healing After Abuse]]></title><description><![CDATA[We expect healing to be this straightforward, linear, and predictable path toward better days. Yes, leaving an abusive person is a huge step forward. Some people come into therapy after leaving the relationship because they expected that once they were free from that person, everything would be manageable from that point forward with steady, consistent progress. What we have found at Rooted Survivors, however, is that leaving the relationship is usually the cornerstone for change. It is the...]]></description><link>https://www.rootedsurvivors.com/post/you-re-not-broken-understanding-the-stages-of-healing-after-abuse</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a5be3235e7d848635e25680</guid><pubDate>Tue, 19 May 2026 07:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/https://smb.ibsrv.net/imageresizer/image/article_manager/1200x1200/334470/1417591/heroimage0.876841001769193955.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Lauren Taylor</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Role of EMDR Therapy in Trauma Recovery | Rooted Survivors]]></title><description><![CDATA[Healing from trauma isn’t just about feeling better in the moment. It’s about retraining the brain and nervous system so that past pain no longer dictates your present reactions. Especially when those reactions no longer serve your safety, peace, or sense of self. For many of the survivors we walk alongside, one of the most transformative tools available in our therapeutic toolkit is EMDR: Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing therapy. It’s not a quick fix, and it’s not magic, but we...]]></description><link>https://www.rootedsurvivors.com/post/the-role-of-emdr-therapy-in-trauma-recovery-rooted-survivors</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a5be3245e7d848635e25683</guid><pubDate>Tue, 12 May 2026 07:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/https://smb.ibsrv.net/imageresizer/image/article_manager/1200x1200/334470/1430439/heroimage0.300885001772228078.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Lauren Taylor</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Budgeting Tips for Survivors Who are Starting Over]]></title><description><![CDATA[Starting over after leaving an abusive relationship is overwhelming. You may be rebuilding not only your emotional life, but also your financial stability. For many survivors, money was once a tool of control, fear, or dependence. Now, it must become a tool of freedom. Budgeting is not about restriction. It is about safety, choice, and empowerment. Learning how to manage your finances after abuse is part of reclaiming your independence and rebuilding trust in yourself. You don’t need to be...]]></description><link>https://www.rootedsurvivors.com/post/budgeting-tips-for-survivors-who-are-starting-over</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a5be325830cbda37bbf7b1d</guid><pubDate>Tue, 05 May 2026 07:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/https://smb.ibsrv.net/imageresizer/image/article_manager/1200x1200/334470/1430459/heroimage0.564939001772233263.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Lauren Taylor</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[What To Know About Reporting Abuse to Authorities and Steps to Take When You Are Ready]]></title><description><![CDATA[Leaving or naming abuse is already an act of courage. Considering reporting it? That’s another layer entirely. If you’re here, you might be feeling a mix of things: fear, uncertainty, urgency, doubt, maybe even hope. That’s normal. You are about to embark on opening a door where the outcome is not clear. We have helped many clients walk through their own reporting and also supported people who are navigating the aftermath of having reported an incident. One truth that we have learned...]]></description><link>https://www.rootedsurvivors.com/post/what-to-know-about-reporting-abuse-to-authorities-and-steps-to-take-when-you-are-ready</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a5be3255e7d848635e25686</guid><pubDate>Tue, 28 Apr 2026 07:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/https://smb.ibsrv.net/imageresizer/image/article_manager/1200x1200/334470/1444287/heroimage0.619842001775673545.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Lauren Taylor</dc:creator></item></channel></rss>